Open Up Your Heart And Just Let A True Self Healing Begin.
So many individuals need to heal themselves as so many individuals are lacking when it comes to forgiveness, as a self-control accelerant that deals with each matter at hand and helps the individual to heal.
You can not heal if you don't know how to start the healing process, as it's a mild walk into some entrances of ways.
You can not heal if you insist on keeping things and individuals tied up in your heart and mind.
A self-motivated aspect that leads to true healing each and every day will eventually get one onto the path of complete healing.
I know for some it might not be easy, but the best solution is to try.
Some stubborn individuals persist in holding on to anger against everyone who did them wrong, and all it does is make them bitter with a short fuse that is ready to go off at any time.
I've had many experiences in life and I can say that I carry hate and anger for those who did me wrong then I realized with an intervention that I needed to truly forgive and let go, of everyone because I was just making myself a cold-hearted individual without care and it was just making me sick to the core.
And that was not me, all I was doing then was hating myself because I wasn't loving myself to forgive those who did me wrong and move on with my life.
I know that there are so many individuals that in life somehow went through an episode of experiences that really challenged their mentality, life, and ordinance.
Some saw the truth of all matters and chose to forgive and move on because that heavy burden was too much to bear.
A few months ago I met a gentleman who was very fond of me and he wanted to start a relationship between him and me, but you know what? Anger hated and everything else stood in the way.
It seems like a child who was ill-treated by his parents and all through his years of living he still holds that grudge, anger, and hate, no love just a cold, hurting heart that really needs to be healed.
And with a split personality, he would just trip at times when he heard about forgiving those who did him wrong.
Actually, his life is all based on revenge, bitterness, and a way to get back at his parents for what they did to him.
He even went as far as to mention that he is waiting until he dies to meet them face-to-face and tell them off.
All I could do was feel sorry for this man because he was so filled with anger towards his parents that he continued to let it get in the way of his life and happiness.
And I pray that he really finds his true self to forgive those who did him wrong move on and live his life.
No one with that kind of attitude and mentality can be happy as they are so focused on revenge and anger that they are overlooking life.
And as I told him, my life has no space for a revengeful individual who persists in holding onto anger that long.
As much as some individuals try, no one can't build a relationship off of anger, hate, or unforgiveness.
I know my boundaries and that does not include taking on a situation in my life that could bring me harm.
Time heals all causes if you will yourself to be healed, time always accelerates in ways, time is the passage that helps and makes everything done, time is always at a steady pace but it has no feet to run.
Yes! Healing does take time, but anger takes life, that is the difference.
Opening up one's heart to healing is an individual softening the outer hard-inflicted core, as it a self-healing from obstacles in past or present ways.
For instance, when the body gets cut it automatically heals itself, the blood clots after a few minutes and the healing process begins.
So why can't individuals let their true instincts of healing begin, instead of giving it a reverse swing that just turns them into individuals with cold hearts of unforgiveness who just act so very mean angry, and frustrated?
Healing is a process that everyone should have, a way that should be embedded in them as a mandatory and peaceful flow.
Without healing, individuals have no consciousness of where they are going as they just fuel themselves with grudges, anger, and hate.
Elements that most of them try to build on, that just act as ammunition that can go off at any time.
Life is not based on holding onto what or whoever tries to make your life a living hell, it's about trying to divert from the situation and move on.
And with that, a healing process is mandatory and you need to forgive that individual that causes the disruptions in your life.
Why stay unhappy and angry when you could be free and happy?
Life is about freedom, the growth of evolving, sharing, caring, and showing authentic love to self and others.
Yes! Sometimes you might find those lucent ones that try to challenge your true caring way and it's best to move on to someone that really needs help, in a difficult situation you must love from afar.
Staying with someone with a mentality of anger, hate, and revenge isn't the safest place to be.
Those individual needs to work on themselves and if they are not willing to help themselves, they will just be wasting your time, and energy and maybe risking your life.
Life is not about being angry with everyone who did you wrong and passing on the anger to others.
Individuals need to truly forgive and move on, I know you wouldn't forget but still!
Just let it be when you remember that it does not create a tear in your heart or soul.
Just let that reminder be off, I was there but I'm not anymore, I've moved on and I'm a free-loving person today.
I will not hold any more anger, hatred, or unforgiveness, I will make myself free and happy.
A good change is good and it can start with true self-healing instead of holding on to individuals, anger, and hate.
Always remember that forgiveness is the beginning of self-healing.
And no one can help you if you continue to be stubborn and don't want to help yourself.
"Dear You, Make Peace with yourself and see your reflection change"
"Stop being bitter and you will get better".
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