Remnants of the Past

Earthly entry is a wholesome happening, to get to be a part of something bigger than you and me.

And gaining entry into a family base structure a child is looking for love, stability, family-oriented focus, yes a true family base to exist in.

But what is family, and what are they supposed to bring to the table, the structures that will help a child get growth in the life in which they stand?

Having a multitude of family bases, where aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews nieces, etc. cohost to exist, their influences should mean everything, but most of the time it means nothing because the functioning of the family structure is not coherent to work as one.

Many men and women have lived in family structures that were mostly broken, as many had to fend for themselves.

A lot of them still carry the blame game suit of mental fatigue and life hindrance that tears their mind, heart, etc. in pieces from replays, just dark roots that try to eat at their core. 

I know of so many individuals from a young age, who suffered in dysfunctional homes, where love, care, and protection, etc. were not the foundation for them.

And a lot of them now grown, still carry the remnants of childhood trauma, that has them locked in a life of colored stains, of every biased work of pain that was implemented on them, some even put blame on others for who they become.

You know what? Blame is not a suit that I wear, and I do believe that no matter what one has gone through in life as a child or other, yes, there will be memories, hate would be present, and forgiveness for all who did the dirty deeds, but you know what?

Life does go on and breaking up one's lifetime existence to block one's path with bad experiences that just carry staining effects is not a wise decision.

Always learn from bad experiences, try to forgive and release that bad part of matters and send love to the deliverer of such.

" Pain is never permanent there is a healing process that can be filled when one attempt to do such the healing process will occur ".

As a child growing up I had to fend for myself, I had no structural loving and caring base to help me stand as a child with efficiency, etc.

 I had to be a mother and father to myself after a dysfunction between my mother, father, etc.

Yes! I was stained by the effects of how and what those experiences did to me, but In trying to save myself I found my true self, I found the strong person that I am today.

" Things that happened in your past, will help accelerate you to your future"

Do I have regrets? At this point in my life, I have grown very optimistic as I do believe that things do happen for a reason, one may not be able to comprehend the damaging structure at the time but eventually, things always go into place.

Through the years I have grown into a better version of myself, first and foremost I forgive myself,  I have clarity, I am at peace with myself and with others that cause great pain, etc. and I did it to release myself from any hindrances that were attached to my heart,

 I had decided that no longer will I go along in my life with burdens tag to me that I am not suited to wear.

Growing up the biased thinking of prejudice and no substance of genuine love was present and played a lot in the dysfunctions of what and how my family base should be.

And after a while of gaining a great understanding of my life, I also learn to move on, forgive, and live my life the best way I know how.

The breakdown element was prejudice and a lack of love in the heart of individuals that turned everyone against each other, and in doing so; they turned away from the children.

In a world of societies that some live in, many have families, but the structural amusements and functioning to keep the family in focus in a loving way, where everyone can see eye to eye has been diminished by much hate, greed, pride, lust and every other aspect that does wrong.

The interference and maneuvering of secondary bias etc. thinking have plagued generations on end with broken home structures.

Who is to blame, for such lucent causes that infiltrate whole generations to fight each other?

As a children, the mandatory aspects are for parents and guardians to protect the children, they should see after their necessary needs.

The protection base should always be standing, the foundation should always be plastered with love unconditionally, and it should never be broken.

Too many lives have been broken; too many lives have been taken, too many are being lost in the streets and ways, too many are lonely and need help from someone that truly cares.

'' It is the positive guidance that propels a child into meaningful pastures in the life of living ".

Yes! Being alone gives one understanding to learn strategies in life for the coming days, a child being alone is a selfish act, from those who were put into guardianship of that child or children, it is a heartless act when that parent or guardian can disown or throw away their child.

Children should not be pushed into survival mode at an early age, there should be a life to enjoy childhood,  not days to be continuously maneuvering through lone standing passages to try to secure, strengthen, protect, and guide themselves in ways that are supposed to show good values for them.

Pain and pressure sometimes make themselves known and as a small child within yourself, you are thought to go on, to never buckle at the weight of ungrateful and selfish encounters from those who were supposed to implant care.

Living life in certain situations can stain and change you into something that you are afraid to look at, it takes willpower, love, a strong understanding of knowledge, and wisdom to see clearly through the dim picture of the life base that you were tormented in.

It takes much strength to turn away and walk on a path on your own of true understanding that will help propel you to delightful and meaningful pastures.

And all the mixed emotions coming from a dysfunctional family base are never relevant as it never played a part, in the beginning, to secure, so how can they speak now? How could they, how will they as most likely all lies have been broken or cut off.

The tendencies which some are living through are so significant to their growth structure, as they should never let what happened to them envelop them into a structural base that does not portray the truthful reasoning of making their happy home and family safe.

The ripple effect can stop and will stop when one has inherited the true alignment of knowledge, wisdom, and understanding so as to never be burdened in a life of living that does not put a growing field into production for them, what is a family base when the true loving elements are not there?

A lot of people need to find self, heal and forgive themselves, as the significant growth of individuals living in societies is haunted by childhood memories of wayward life experiences that have been intruding in a very difficult way.

The mind games just go on for some, and some just let them play out without putting a stop to the mental, physical, spiritual, and personal slideshows.

Individuals need to stand for the true values of what is theirs to inherit, the true foundation of peace and its loving aspects of ways, etc., they do not have to continue what was damaging to them.

I had to change for good when the remnants of my living life try to change me badly.

I had no choice but to divert to my true self of worth and understanding, to accept that in life I matter most.

And the decision for me to walk away from people things and places that did not function as meaningful and helpful privileges to coexist as learning fields were not truly structured were too welcoming to me.

So with many distortions etc., I decided with the grace of God he will help me to help myself, and he did.

So I decided to walk away from elements, people, and passages that did not want me that were only out to try to destroy me.

At this point in my life, I have no regrets, because I have gained many structural bases and understanding that made me a stronger person to understand my whole life in perspective.

To regret is to remove that part of my life that played a part in making me a stronger self, and I cannot regret gaining the tool that helped sealed my true structure into place.

But if I could do it over, I would have started earlier in life to stop a lot of hurt and pain, that dislodge them from living securely, the ones that were destroyed and lost their lives in the turmoil.

No child ever chooses their family; it is the families that choose them, the parents that decided to bring them into a life of their ways, their mistakes, etc, when their reproduction fields go into play.

A child does not know any better until their eyes opened and they get seasoned into what lies before them in a family base.

The child grows and the saga unfolds, then mentality is interrupted, and with true understanding, they should get directed.

When the pressure point comes, it is not to get broken, it is not to buckle down at the weight of intrusions that help to play a part, and it is of greater wisdom that one stand.

And help pull themselves out of the strain of a life that was pushed on them to try to change their focus into damaging remnants that t to try to destroy their true existence of them, the true and meaningful essence which they walk with.

The program will change when the individual has overcome all obstacles in a spiritual, mental, physical, and personal way.

The leverage for turning away from life intruders and intrusions can be easily achieved once one aligns with true beneficial aspects, which help one understand their true worth and life as a helpful structure that must exist.

As the greatness in that individual, getting a challenge means that there is a greater purpose to achieve, your essence for true workmanship.

In the life of living growing up was a tedious phase, it got harder with maturity, but when I accomplished the true form of alignments and understand what truly is, it just turned into a small puzzle that I was able to get through in no time at all.

The full function is to understand your true self, to know your worth, to know where you came from, how you got through it all, and the commitment to never replay a destroying scene.

A truly focused, mind a strong heart, faith, and hope with the knowledge, wisdom, and understanding to be aware to know that you deserve better.

And if, better could be accomplished by you, what better person to do it for yourself than you.

That is the basis of understanding your true self and helping yourself up along the way.

The remnants of what once will never be, as you go forward and truly exist in your life that does not disown you, but walks and live in one that welcomes you with open arms.

 A life that helps you to understand that, you are meant for a greater purpose is why some try to break you in the first place.

But you are not to be broken, you are meant to be always standing in the true structure that helps you up.

To walk with the true structure that will give you more wisdom, knowledge, and understanding to know yourself and the life of which you came and the one you should go onto.

All the remnants in life that caused you pain, hurt resentment, etc., will now help to be your victory structure.

The balance field will be accomplished and the victory walk will be yours when you truly find yourself, in a life of not knowing yourself to see what truly is.

True platforms will be placed before you as you continue to truly push yourself to exist.

I know that the healing process will take time for some, as everyone is different, but healing can be filled when one proceeds.

Individuals just need to release the burdens, damaging mental slideshows, etc., those are not yours to carry, those belong to the perpetrators of the crimes. 

It is time that you find yourself forgive, and move on.

" It is with great knowledge, wisdom, and understanding that one sees the truth of all matters and acts wisely on their behalf ".

Never ever let your mind and living mental structure, be programmed or blocked by damaging infiltrating thoughts, which try to season themselves into your mind's capacity to grow and move on, you owe yourself to help yourself so let the healing process begins.